Signs She Likes You Through Texting

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So I been chatting with this guy on Facebook for a while. Any advice would be appreciated! Before, she used to talk about other guys and stuff, also, she knows how I feel about her and I would like to date her but then they'd go and break her heart or hurt her, and she'd come back to me to talk to about it.

How to Tell if a Girl Likes You: 17 Common Signs [From Her]

Girls often text differently from their male counterparts. If you're a guy, it can be tough to figure out what a girl really means. Is she just asking for directions, or something more? Was that really just a picture of puppies? Once you understand how she's trying to communicate with you over text, it will be a lot easier to tell if she's interested. Before we get into the details, here are the top ways you can know if a girl likes you through text. Below you'll find plenty more ways and lots of details. Guys: what are your favorite kinds of text messages to receive from girl? There are lots of fun, little texts that you may not even think about, but that also give subtle hints that this girl likes you and wants you to like her. Here are some signs to look out for. If you have no idea why she's starting a conversation through text and it seems comical, she definitely likes you. Girls are not as direct as guys and these seem like hot buzz words to throw to see if you react. Girls who do this might not be looking for a relationship, but something more short term. Either way, they're probably being flirty. Same goes with what colors suit her, which of her outfits you like best, etc. Be a gentleman to her so you don't freak her out. Girls are more sensitive in some ways about language, so consider the possible effect of an innocent innuendo about 5Xs before sending. If you receive a message with more than ONE nickname, she likes you. She probably associates you with those feelings. Seriously, once I texted a guy about puppies that I saw from my car. I wasn't really texting him about puppies. He ended up liking the puppy text, by the way. Guys sometimes talk about the girls they like to the girl they really like; girls don't really do that. If they tell you about guys they like, most likely they see you as a friend. Girls keep their business private when they think they might have a chance with you. If a girl is texting you during tough times or about serious things in her life, and especially if she's allowing herself to be emotionally vulnerable with you, that's a huge deal because it means she trusts and respects you. Of course, a girl might trust and respect you and still only see you as a friend. But chances are, if she's letting herself get that close to you, she probably likes you as something more. The following are text message signs that will let you know that this girl really, really likes you. She's on top of what's going on, but she doesn't want to be a jerk and swoop in on you. Instead, she's checking in on you to see how you're doing and see if she can do something about it. She wants to be around you, and to be there for you if you need it. You're one of the few people she thinks will be handy in a situation that takes problem-solving, whether killing a spider, finding her keys, or comforting her when she is sad. If she's talking a lot to you, she wants you to open up. She may not be sure how to get you to talk. Women love listeners, but they love when you talk too. They see it as an affirmation that the relationship isn't just one-sided. She's either been dying to say that, or has been thinking about you a lot and is probably feeling like others don't compare. Because, you know, others don't compare. Girls knows it's weird to give advice in a text message, especially long advice, but if she cares about you and notices something that you're doing is off, then she'll be dying to confront it. Women drop hints about what they want to do with you. They have visions about having fun, and they want someone to go with them, play games, eat food, and spend quality time. She cares about you and about what you think of her. She probably really is sorry. Unless she dishes that out to everyone, those words are gutsy. Unfortunately, she may be manipulating you and knows that emotions will hook a guy, or 2. She may need comfort and sees you as someone she can trust when vulnerable. She probably MORE than likes you. Try to respect that vulnerability and act worthy of her trust. Are you trying to upgrade your interactions from social media to real life hanging out? Here are some signs that will help you figure out if she'd like to do that, too, and if she is using text messaging to try and find a way to spend more time with you. Questions such as asking you to do a favor for her, asking to borrow a book, or asking you to escort her through an unpleasant situation are all good signs. Often, the amount a girl texts you is even more important than what she's actually texting. Time of day, frequency, and occasion can all be important clues as to how much a girl likes you. Here are some signs relating to not what she texts you, but when and how often. She may initiate several conversations, though this will frustrate her because she will think that you don't like her if you never initiate. Women don't typically do that. She may forget, but usually will send a courtesy text to apologize. Flat-out forgetting several times is weird. There's nothing wrong with her, she just prefers to be cool rather than a total flirtbag. Keep this in mind! For instance, 10 texts a day is a lot, 20 is very indicative, 30 is flat out obvious, with 40 you should go see her, and 50 is incredible. This may be for fun, but the longer it continues, the more likely she is crushing on you. She knows 1am is a strange time, and would have to really trust and think you're safe if she is doing so if it's not overt. They will try to figure out some sort of pattern. If you are getting a lot of texts in a week, month, year, two years—try thinking about all of it together. If the girl you like is sending you pictures, that's a great sign. Usually, she'll either send you a picture of something she thinks is cool or funny like a funny license place or a cute dog or she'll send you pictures of herself. If she's sending you pictures of herself, that's even better. Do not share pictures of her with your friends ever. The more the better. If she has lots of pictures with everyone, then this isn't as accurate. The winky face is a dead giveaway. If there's an overabundance of smileys, exclamation marks, and overall excitement, that's also an positive sign. After all, there's more to text messages than the words themselves. Length, syntax, even punctuation can be an indicator of whether a girl likes you. A general rule is: the more time she spends on a text for you, the more she cares about you and about what you think. So, longer texts, well-written texts, proper spelling: those are all good signs. It's not because she's crazy or doesn't know how to be concise, she really cares about you, and for whatever reason isn't given the chance to say some things straight to your face. She may give long winded advice or send you the longest rants of goofiness. Don't let it overwhelm you. Take it as a major compliment that she's crushing on you. Women generally hate receiving these and think something is wrong or you're just not interested. A one word response from a woman is frowned upon. Even if the relationship is leveling out, encourage her crazy texting. Happy, fun texting is a good indication of relationship health. When it becomes only a means of contact and sorting affairs, you're getting dull. Do not immediately think she is annoyed. Girls want to create connection. They want responses so they can feel confident about your interest, and they want to figure out if you're right for them without being too obvious. These can be indicative, but sometimes girls just send drunken texts out of their ridiculousness and love for the world. Men drunk texting generally means more, especially if it doesn't have overt sexual tones. If this becomes a consistent thing, she likes you. Girls try to be particular about punctuation and crap, especially as they get older. High schools girls may be more into abbreviations and slang, but someone in grad school? Obviously, this stuff would be beneath them. Guys, how much do you care about the girl's text message grammar skills? Hi Andrea, So there's a girl and we have been friends for a very long time and drifted apart when we were younger. In the last six months we have started spending more time together again, going for walks or out for coffee and trampolining, never as dates, just as friends. We text each other most days and see each other at least once a week. She always uses emojis in her texts with me and recently started to use my name as well in said texts. Over the last couple of weeks I have come to find that I have quite strong feelings for her but I am unsure of how to proceed or whether it is even something that I should follow up on? We've been friends for 35 years and there was always something between us when we were younger but life took us in different directions and now I'm just not sure if it is a good idea to try and talk to her about this? We chat every day almost and on-off all day especially at night. She tells me about her problems i try to comfort her.. Last night she was drunk and we did the same. One of my friends asked her out and she said no she likes someone else. Also she never sends me pictures randomly except once when she was crying about something. We talk alot in class in fact she teaches me spanish. In class she starts conversations but over text never. Help, I am a girl but girls are still confusing. Does she like me what do I do please help. Sometimes selfies and sometimes taken by someone else. Also sends me pictures of random places views from her workplaces, trips or places refered to me, like buildings I used to work. Its more random rather than something usual, always after I wish her a nice trip or starting a conversation. She keeps sending me pictures of her. I don't ask for them, she just sends me pictures: she went on a trip and send me a picture of her there, when i asked if she had returned, she sent 2 more of the views from her offices. I asked the name of her company and sent me a photo of her wearing a backpack with her company's name on it. I invited her to an evet and accepted to go with me. I actually reply to her in a very normal way, like no emojis, i take some hours or days to reply i dont reply when i am at work. She does not talk about her boyfriend with me and says she really likes what i do in my work. We also have hanged out some times. Does she likes me or she is just playing? I mean she gives good signs, but how do i know its not a frienship. Even when I text her very plain. If I asked her for a favor and she does it. She asked me if I noticed her wearing a present I gave her in her profile picture. If she tries to hang out, she or I cancells and immediatelly proposses next week. Starting the conversation with the topic of hanging out. If she nicely complain when you dont reply or she texts you more. If I call her she talks diferent, sounds very exited or apologizes if she couldnt answer? She started contact again but was still cold so I was very carefull texting her. She facetimed me 2 days in a row. She texts me everyday and she likes to start hello first. One of my friends that are girls snitched on me and told her so now she is very suspicious. I got her to believe me that I don't like her but I think she is having second thoughts because I rarely talk to her now. I still texts her a lot but mostly just texts. She interrogates me a lot of times. Also Question: If she face times you a lot does that mean she likes you? Anyways please help me I really need to know how do I know if she likes me back? He likes to randomly send pics of his face and its really cute. I have told him i like him and even my sister told him i like him and he still hasn't brought up asking me out. And I would say hi back and she would say lol! One was of her beautiful self from the neck up, the second was her from the neck down and she was in really nice clothes and the other was her with a friend and she drew all over her friends face. After that I tried to keep a conversation going. After that we text everyknow and then but we usually just talk at school. She calls me when she is going to work, at work and going home from work. Plus calls when she is at home with her kids. I have been introduced to the family, friends and the kids at various times since i have known her. She sends me loads of photos of herself plus the occasional music video, where love etc. A female friend of mine when i told her of this said oh my god she really likes you. She uses various words to describe me, Mr Lovely, Cutie, Sweetie, Sweetness, funny in a cute way and a number of others. Do you think I am mis-reading that she has some sort of attraction towards me? Last week she sent me a picture out of the blue of a building in which I used to work, telling me she was nearby one week before and making a joke about it. I teased her and she continued the conversation. What do you think? So I texted her friend for confirmation and she said yes but she wanted her friend to come with. And a few days later I texted her again asking if she she could fish next weekend and she said she thinks she can and said the first girl I asked was free to. So I texted the first girl to make sure she had an open schedule and she said her friend spoke for her and she was busy so the second girl basically lied. Not always an indication they like you in a romantic way. If she texts you back and forth, that is a good indication, especially in such a short timeframe. But my philosophy is if you're getting a response and constant communication, you are are in good shape. If she is greeting you in another language she may be trying to shake things up and make it more interesting. I say keep talking to her and flirting. These are positive signs, but not necessarily meaning she likes you. If it keeps being consistent for a long period of time, there is likely some amount of interest. If she greets you through text in another language in german or french? We met like 2 times and she was sending me clear signals she liked me. We haven't seen each other for 1,5 month because of the summer holidays but we kept on texting it became less frequent and intense than in the beginning but it's still at least once a day. Today she told me that she doesn't like me sending photos of myself to her as often as I have been doing it and when I told her that she should've told me earlier she responded that she is not that kind of a girl that tells but rather a guy should notice by himself.. Do I have any chances left with her? Or did she do it just to inform me she doesn't like it and still likes me? A girl can't be polite? Can't be friendly if she doesn't likes you as something else? Why I would text for example about a serious topic just with the person I like? Or why I can't use a lot of emojis with just friends? If a use correct grammar with you I must see you as something else than a friend? That's ridiculous, or what about compliments or sorries? I can't say something nice to a friend? I could do all or most of these actions with just a friend to be honest. By the way, sorry if there's a mistake on what I wrote, English is not my first language. He texts me everyday and most of the time i will be the one who starts the conversation. He will make the conversation longer and longer. He shares his personal life with me and comfort me during my hard times. But then why he is not proposing me or telling that he likes me? She told me she was datig someone and that she didnt even know how it happened. I asked her if she ever thought about dating me and she said that she thought about that when we met. She also told me she didn't wanted to date somewone who knew her in her last relationship because she remembers her ex. She didn't rejected me nor accepted to be my girlfriend. She didn't told me specifically I like her but I think she does. Two days after that she texted me to ask me about my sports team. I think she is very confussed since her breakup. Do you think I gave her some time or just give a try and go for it? I told her that she always comes up with excuses, because she hangs out with all her friends. She told me she hanged out with someone yesterday I beleive a guy and she told me she would tell me sometime on the week when she could spend time with me. To be honest I was kinda rude on the phone, and she played very deffensive she defended herself telling me we hanged out on my birthday, 5 months ago and that I was overreacting because she cancels to everyone all the time. I told her that I wanted to hang out with her for almost 3 weeks now and she has time to hang out with her friends, go to concerts, hang out with someone most probably a guy and a friend who is currently on town. She never proposes another date, she jyst cancells and tells me she has a very crazy schedule. I have no reason to not believe her. I told her she is the only one who knows her schedule and she can easily pick up one day, but never does. On the texting, last week she was very responsive, sending many mesages to my questions, even with some gaps between her messages she texted me twice, then waited 10 minutes and texted me again. Yesterday she send me a sorry message for not responding and very large hahaha's, on FB and Whatsapp. She confusses me too much. But recently she takes long to answer me like an hour each text and then respond very poorly? Is she into me or not we've hung out and everything am I in the friend zone? She might be telling you about the other guys to let you know she has guy friends, but isn't in anything romantically. I think she really liked the earrings. I think you should keep talking to her and try to hang out again. She's being flustered around you, so I think she has a little crush. I gave her some earring of my own design. In the party she continuously talked about me with her friends male and female , she also told me to pay attention to a song I shared with her while it was playing, and changed her earring for the ones I gave her. When I was going, she left the party and waited with me while my uber picked me up. We were still waiting when she asked me if I wanted to se her room, I obviously said yes and went to see her room. She turned on the lights and ran to stand aside her bed, I approached her but then she ran back to were I was. Two days after her party she liked all my FB statuses of the past month. She changed her PP to one where she uses my earrings, just after I told her I wanted her to be my model. I wrote her she was beautiful and I was glad she accepted to be my model and I think she blushed. Two of them are much older the her, she went to dinner with them but she is interesed only academically. The last is 2 years older than her but she says she is not interested in him, she just likes him because he is like her in the work. She continuously sends me mixed signs. I want to ask her in person what she thinks about me, but she always has other plans and never propose another day. What do you think? Is she interested and only playing hard? She recently broke with her boyfriend and we have been texting every week. Most of the times I initiate conversation and very few she starts. She has sent me random pictures of places and some pictures of herself. Last week she went on a trip, I wrote her and she replied 2 days later but sent a picture of where she was. I didn't replied and the next day she sent me more pictures of the place and one of her. She has sent me photos of her little cousins, her job, herself, of both of us, videos of projects she made, I just have asked for pictures once and she sent them to me, one day later She also uses lots of hahaha, exclamation marks and smiley faces. So far I believe she is interested, but when I invite her to hang out she just not seems so interested. She makes work excuses, or hangs out with her friends or with her family; and she never propose another day to hang out. I invited her to the movies once and to hang out another about 4 months ago and she went those times. She even texted me saying she enjoyed those, but after that she always have another plan. She invited me to her prom party and to hang out with her friends, but treats me different to them she is more touchy with them, has more confidence and she was ashamed and pointed at me when one of her friends said something about her. She has called me just to ask me questions about some things that she has doubts about my profession. She has also left me on seen some times, and replied one word texts. From the few times she has initiated the convo, she asked if I liked some music after changing my profile pic. She liked my posts and bragged about that now she doesn't do it anymore , and also brags frequently she is the best cousin, she never gets angry, etc The last one and also the worst she tried to pair me with a girl she didn't know in a bar. I don't know what to think of this girl. I don't know she is with someone or not, and I have never met her. Also, the blunder wasn't totally my fault. She had posted her approx. She told me that she doesn't knows me we met online. So I apologized rather dramatically nothing fake , and told her that I would stay away from her for a while, because it became a little awkward. She wasn't angry at this, rather consoling me that I shouldn't apologize and not feel bad, and told me that it's OK, and relax. I think she was caught off-guard when I told her that, and was just polite enough not to blast me. BTW I'll stay away from her, wait for her to initiate after this. I'm not sure what was the exact blunder you made with this woman initially. It seems it provoked an angry response from her, but she continued to talk to you -- and for hours. Patient + calm + angry is a unique mix... Have you two met in person? Is she single or seeing someone else? Keep the connection going, stay positive, be friendly. Slowly increase the texting. Don't just dismiss her too quickly. Watch your own patience. Like her, but don't control her. Be accepting with the progress you receive on this. Try to get to know her more. Start with more fun-loving questions and work your way to more meaningful questions. She responded to an online comment, that I had posted. I looked up her profile, she is beautiful no doubt about it, but the thing that was more important was her personality. As I said she isn't very impatient, so she didn't shoo me off immediately. At the same time when I came in contact with her, there was another guy; really good looking, muscular guy was in contact with her; and I know she is falling for him; she went out of the way to convince him that there was no misunderstanding between them - I think she's into him. I'm not a muscular guy, but I'm not puny either, I'm little chubby, and have really good career. I'm no match to the other guy in terms of the looks, but I have a good, high paying job. I work with Wall Street firms. So this may be the only plus point for me, but she doesn't knows about that. Also, I am really good at negotiations, as far as I know. After initial blunder that I did, I thought I blew my chance for good, but I told her to PM me on chat. Two days later yesterday middle of the night, I get a anger-filled message from her wanting an explanation about my initial blunder, I apologized to her and told her that because I was attracted to her, I had panicked and made a boo-boo, she probably got convinced and we chatted for almost 2 hours that night before she dozed-off. Today we had 1-2 back-n-forth but no real conversation. At this point, I'm confused as to what make off this situation. I am kind off desperate for her, though I haven't shown my desperation, but I cannot control it. Any advice would be appreciated. We've been texting on Instagram and you know, just asking each other some breaking the ice questions, and it's been pretty good. However, sometimes she would send a Love Heart out of the blue and then just continue. I thought her thumb must of slipped or something but she's done it MULTIPLE times. I mean about 3 times a day. It's either, she has shaky thumbs or she's doing something a rather FYI: she knows I like her , and I REALLLLY need some help with understanding what's going on. We would both vent to each other, she has her boyfriend issues, i have abuse issues, were like personal counselors she said. We would talk 30-40 times a day and she would call me her bestie and occasionally boo, whatever that means and its would be followed with hearts. Right after that conversation was over she asked if I could come to her birthday party. I told her I'm in oklahoma city, i'll ask my father, and he was undecided. I told her to know that i'd miss my own graduation for it. I asked her what would she want for her gift, she said just something sparkly. She sent me an picture of the invitation since the rest were given out to everybody. And i told her I was looking back through our messages and there were a few times when i din't listento here i just was ranting about some other crap. She said She's here for me no matter what happens. And i told her its not for sure. Then i told her that i found out i couldn't come, that i was mad, i explained why, but still told her i'm getting her a present still, that is going to be definite! I told her i cant be at the party via facetime, or video chat. She was happy about that and i told her i could just vid chat, or send a prerecorded message. She then of course said Thanks bestie followed by hearts. She said okay thanks followed by a golden hands in prayer. Then we texted random gifs to each other. She text me 3 smiling blushing emojis. She said I love it. And here were at present day. How do i respond as sending a kiss seems more like a girls thing to do? We text everyday; In the morning she says gm and asks me what I'm doing, then after school starts talking with me and even at night we talk.. But the huge problem is.. She has a boyfriend.. Anyway, we met oddly enough by me telling her I liked her, I knew she was dating the other guy but I honestly I could not hold back anymore.. Eventually I learned she liked me for about a year and a half.. Eventually we started to become really close friends.. We talked a lot during the summer and she mostly answered with one word responses but sometimes told me story's and stuff, but we'd talk about random things and what's going on rn all day, even though it was slow, we stilled texted quiet a bit. Then school came in, I learned she was in my homeroom, but so was her boyfriend... She didn't have any of my other classes with me either so it was pretty much just homeroom or 9th period. That's when we really started talking over text.. She opened up to me as if we'd known each other for years, telling me more personal and trusting stories and telling me what's going on in her life. We talked everyday and responded to each other's messages almost asoon as we got them. It was really fast paced, but I kept feeling like I had shackles around my legs and I wanted to tell her she's cute and pretty and flirt but.. We didn't talk much in person because of no classes together and her being with her bf at 9th and having different friends and stuff.. We'd talk about deep stuff and happy stuff and funny stuff and just about everything you can think we could talk about without getting really personal or flirty. Just a couple days ago we were talking and we laughed at what she said and when we stopped laughing we kinda gave each other a long stare for like.. She stared at my eyes and I stared at hers giving each other a nice, calm smile across our faces.. I texted her and she was telling me happy moments in her life and she said me being their at 9th with her were a couple of nice memories.. Maybe about a day ago I asked her if she still liked me, last time I asked was in July and she said kinda. She said that bc I'm so nice to her and always there for her, that really made her happy and made her like me.. She says I'm one of the few she can trust and that she doesn't know where she'd be without me.. My point is we talk all time.. I tried counting how many times in a day we talk but my finger got tired of scrolling so much.. We have a lot of inside jokes and joke about the stupidest stuff... Maybe I'm just so far in the friend zone my head started thinking this way.. Either way I feel like there's more to what she thinks of me but I don't know what to do because of her bf and kinda liking me and classes and stuff.. As soon as I realized I did that I pretty much smacked my self in the head.. A couple of days later I text her apologising for being a bit off with her at the training night, she said that she hadn't noticed but still hadn't worked out what I meant we should have a chat about I will now quote again: Me: I meant we should probably have a chat about how we feel about each other Her: Oh I see.. Well before we make this really awkward just know I really see you as just a very good friend whom I can trust and rely on. This was last week and now I'm really confused, I also feel like she has been avoiding me at college as when she enters a study zone she normally sits with me and a few of our other friends. This week she always sits by herself if I'm there first, if I get there last she is sat with our friends as normal! Sorry if this is long and confusing but I'm at my wits end as I feel like not only have I lost any chance with her I'm also loosing her as a friend! I'm at uni and she is friends with my flat mate, turns out I'm going to be living with her next year in accommodation. So naturally we start seeing her more as she wants to get to know us for next year. I went out clubbing with her and she was quite physical, touching and hugging and taking pictures. Nothing else happened that night and i thought nothing of it. However recently we went out again but she had to leave early to catch a flight. When i got back from the club we started texting a little about the night, and we ended up talking from 3am to 6:30am when her flight was. She sends me a lot of love hearts and kisses and calls me babe etc. She liked a couple of my pictures on Facebook during our convo and we had really good banter and she kept the convo going when i was going to go to sleep. I don't know if she is into me or is just trying to be friendly for next year, or if she just wanted someone to talk to while waiting for her flight. That's where you go from here. The more you talk, hang out, the more she will open up. Don't make it much more complicated than that. Do cute gestures for her. She'll get the idea and warm up to you if she's interested. Open up your romantic side, pick out a flower for her, buy her something that reminded you of her, take her to things she likes, write her notes by hand. Oh, definitely write her notes by hand. Get her candy, chocolate, jewelry. She never used to initiate conversation that much and I seemed to be doing all the work. However over the past week she seemed to initiate a lot of the conversations and sometimes messages me telling me to have a great day. Almost all her texts end up having a laughing emoji or an lol at the end of it, sometimes even 3 plus emojis. We usually text for 5 plus hours and she responds in a flash. When I see her in class she never really talks, is quiet and as soon as I get home we text for almost the rest of the day. What are your thoughts? Than i kind of lost interest.. Bdw its a long distance relationship... But we never proposed.. Abd after 2-3 months she is not taking my calls as earlier and messaging me... Very late with long replies. I asked her i hace romentic feelings about her... But she said she would nit be able to have that feeling... I am getting obsessed what to do.. And the other instance i was in class and she was teasing me and sent me a picture of her bed saying its comfertable while im in class busting my ass haha does she like me? Boy this one is complicated. It sounds like she is confused with her feelings. I think if you really care about her, I would be her friend one way or the other. If you come to a point where you just can't stand it anymore because your feelings are not being reciprocated, I think it's okay to take a break from each other and tell her that, because it's not easy when you have feelings for someone and you're not really getting them back. I think you guys have a strong enough friendship that you can talk to her and tell her that you do have feelings for her, and that it is okay if she does not, whether she ever does or eventually does.... Being a good friend is extremely important in life. It's hard on people when friendships end because of different feelings and goals. Tell her that you are interested, but not going to force it on her. That it isn't exactly easy to see her date. Let her know you are open to what she wants to try. Keep it positive and loving, and you never know what might end up happening. This kind of focus will help you navigate through this tough situation. You can always dial things back, and say the interactions are too flirty right now if you are only friends. Be open minded, say you are willing to learn, and the last thing you want to do is hurt her feelings. We usually use snapchat but do text sometimes. Before, she used to talk about other guys and stuff, also, she knows how I feel about her and I would like to date her but then they'd go and break her heart or hurt her, and she'd come back to me to talk to about it. After the 3rd time, which was around 2 weeks ago, she started talk to me WAY more often. She'd text me in the mornings, and send me snapchats all day, more than 70 texts and a ton more snap chats, and just always seem to love my company. She'd tell me things that she's never told anyone, and things she's went through in the past, and always comes to me if she's feeling sad or angry about someone. The past few days, she's been staying up really late talking to me, texting me from 11am all the way until 4am omly a few hours where she didn't text, but she'd initiate the next time she was ready the next morning a few times. She'd constantly talk about her family, we'd constantly send selfies back and forth, she'd send pictures of her pets, and she was always excited in her texts. She would RARELY send one word replies too. We've talked about many personal things, including past relationships. She always teases me about a bunch of things and we always laugh it off. She's never been one to send emojis to me or anyone in the past, but during these two weeks, she's sent a lot and sent a few heart emojis too. She always tries to cheer me up and be there for me if I need it, and always comes to me for comfort. When we're not staying up late, it's because she falls asleep early while talking to me. She's asked if I've ever been in love with anyone My response was no because I've never been in a relationship , she teases me about never having a first kiss and stuff like that Which I haven't , but before these 2 weeks, when she knew I liked her, and she knows I still do I assume, she told me she didn't feel the same and didn't really want a relationship like that with me. But then after the third guy hurt her, she came back to me and started acting like this. How should I take this, and how should I react? She shows MANY of the signs stated, but I feel like she doesn't feel the same about me. Any help is appreciated! Thank you for your time and for making the article! I say keep talking to her. Things will open up naturally and you'll figure out what you need here. If you feel ready to confess that you like her, do so. If not, you can wait it out and see if things grow anymore. This happens as well on Twitter. I constantly talk to her over text and Instagram but not nearly as much at school, with the conversations we have online always exceeding both of us posting 10, the highest having been 25. They don't contain emojis, but there are a lot of abbreviations only we and a few others understand, and she expresses herself with her text well. Whenever I say something along the lines of, 'Thanks for that,' she'll reply most of the time with, 'Uh, thanks? For a few months as well now, she'll constantly look at me before turning away to a foreign object when I catch the look, which she shortly and subtly blushes afterwards. She also plays with her hair a lot when nearby me: any idea what's happening, or if I should take the next step? It seems like you have a good connection there and that is more important. People can have very odd Facebook preferences that can be hard to understand sometimes. It's easy to miss messages on Facebook. Try getting her phone number in a natural way. Text messages are easier to follow with people. Her and I tend to tease each other. You're a funny guy. So i decided to message her, to which she would reply almost instantly. But the next day, I messaged her however she didn't reply even though she saw my message. I do not want to seem bothersome, so I do not feel like sending her another message unless she doesn't reply for another day or so. I am getting mixed signals from her, what do you guys think? The most important thing, actually, is that work romances are delicate but also have favorable odds. You don't want to screw up that connection because it can make going to work terrible, so as a rule of thumb be careful about not making things negative for the two of you. As for the things you are worrying about, women are not going to compliment you as much and that's okay. There's all kinds of reasons out there, but usually they don't compliment as much, and it's not because they're trying to be rude. Sometimes when they are complimenting you a lot, that's actually suspect for luring you in, maybe just trying to seduce you for your resources but not actually like you. Women have more pressure not to be forward. They want you to pursue them; it'll confuse them if you have them chasing you. A lot of them will drop out if you put them in those situations. Not all, but a lot. It's a yin and yang thing. Women typically not always are more yin like and responsive. Men are typically not always more yang like, and initiate more instead of the responsive lead. Changing up that dynamic for some people will confuse the crap out of them. And it can reverse itself at times. She sounds like a yin. Not everyone sends pictures of themselves, and that's okay. It might be too much pressure, or they overanalyze what they're wearing and the lighting. Pictures are not mandatory. These are not the typical tactics women use to flirt. Usually if a girl is talking a lot, and trying to keep it interesting, that's usually your best sign. I think she likes you. Rescheduling for being sick is fine. She works with you.... Instead try to nourish, encourage, and enjoy. Over thinking will backfire on you. If she dated one of your best friends and is now flirting with you, this could be a troublesome person. Is this friend of yours still a best friend? Then she dated another friend? That's two people from the same circle. I worry she is leading you on. Does she seem sweet or more sultry? Does she seem to care about your feelings or is being more sexual? I know this girl since primary school, we didn't really hang out together at that time, but we do since around ~4 years. Just after she broke up with one of my best friends they had a relationship for a very long time , I decided to ask whether she liked me or not, as my self-confidence wasn't that great and still isn't. One week after that, she got into another relationship with one of my friends! It felt devastating, I must say.. ~ 1 year ago she left the circle of friends and we didn't speak that much. A couple of weeks ago, I had a party at one of the friends still in our circle of friends. She asked whether I wanted to go with her to the party, as we both live in the same area and we had to go by bus. We had a fun time and it looked like she kept trying to get my attention through smiling and laughing at what I had to say. Since then we both send a lot of snaps and chat. I'm not sure whether she likes me or not.. She does send a lot of emojis and also heart emoji's. Any way I can find out whether she likes me? We would talk and joke with each other, but nothing serious. At one point I mentioned that I had never been to Medieval Times and she said we should go and picked the time and date when we should go, and we did. We didn't specify it as a date or anything but we went mini-putting afterwards and the a dessert place for a couple of hours, then I drove her back home. I didn't try to kiss her though I could kind of tell there was a sort of tension where we were seeing what the other would do. Since then we've pretty much been texting CONSTANTLY, like at least a few hundred texts a day. Here's where I'm getting mixed signals. She never flat out compliments me, never sends pics of herself and doesn't really ask for my opinion on anything. However, the conversation keeps flowing smoothly and we send texts the size of essays to each other. We text in the morning, afternoon, evening and night til 2am or so. She has occasionally mentioned some guys, but always follows it up as an ex or someone she's not into. There's almost always emojis in every text. Whenever we talk about getting drunk not together she says she tends to make bad decisions or spends her energy making out. If the conversation tends to naturally end and we see each other at work, she'll text me later starting a new conversation. I am starting to develop feelings for her and I did ask her since she had a free night if she wanted to do something and she said that she was swamped with work and starting to get sick and sent a few follow up messages apologizing and wanting to reschedule. I feel like I'm overthinking this and I want to make a move but I don't want to ruin the friendship if I'm wrong. Good to know I'm right in not understanding the situation. That's a ton of texting to be going back and forth and definitely shows interest. A lot changes in 4 years, so I think the slate is clean and something new altogether. I say keep talking, please keep talking. I think you should push for a date, and don't get your emotions trying to fast forward things. Take it easy, nice and slow. She may still have some stuff to work through with her also recent breakup, but since she is the one who found you on a dating site, I think she's genuine about her interest. It might just need a moment for it to get settled and to develop on its way. My best advice: keep it positive. Whatever is going on, be positive, supportive, and let her know you are in it to nourish it. Nothing is wrong with that. She definitely likes you. I hope this works out. Are you guys seeing each other in person? Maybe that's what you need, a date or something. Things can get easily misconstrued through texting. Girls also don't compliment guys as much, unfortunately. Women are not trying to be jerks, but they understand romance better by responding to someone's energy, not by trying to lead it themselves -- they'll start to feel like they're doing two jobs at once. Now, this doesn't go for everyone, but it is pretty typical. It's a very yin and yang thing. Look into yin and yang. She says she still likes me but I'm not too sure, I want to believe her but she just doesn't act like it at all. Never complimented me yet I tell her she's beautiful and that. When she clearly upset I show interest but when I feel upset she never seems to realise, maybe I'm just over thinking things but it really messing me up the now Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages ® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc. HubPages and Hubbers authors may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others. This website uses cookies As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, pairedlife. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so. 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I once found myself in the same situation as you are. He Contacts You During The Day If a guy only ever contacts you late at night, especially on weekends, jesus are that he is only after one thing. Yep, you guessed it, a great sign that he would prefer having you next to him under the sheets. She works with you. If you make her son happy which is sounds like you do then I am north she is going to want to get to know you better and she will probably end up loving you just as much as his ex. I actually reply to her in a very normal way, like no emojis, i take some hours or days to reply i dont north when i am at work. She may pretend to remove an imaginary thing from your arm or hair. Experience teaches us lots of things, but learning along the way is fun too. She asks for your picture One of the most obvious signs a girl likes you through solo is when she asks you for your picture. Concentrate on stuff that makes you happy instead of focusing on him.